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		<title>How to support your favourite cosplayer</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Sep 2019 10:15:12 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>You don't need to be rich to support your favourite cosplayer. There are many ways in which you can show your appreciation</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://aliceincosplayland.com/2019/09/how-to-support-your-favourite-cosplayer.html">How to support your favourite cosplayer</a> appeared first on <a href="https://aliceincosplayland.com">Alice in Cosplayland</a>.</p>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">You may think that in order to support your favourite cosplayer you need to have a lot of money. This is actually not true! There are so many ways to show appreciation and support to your favourite cosplayers, and you don&#8217;t even need to spend a penny!</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">We, creators, spend hours creating new content and thinking of new ideas to share with you. A great part of it we make it for ourselves, let&#8217;s be honest, I love doing cosplays, but did you ever consider that we don&#8217;t really need to share it all with you? I mean, it takes me much less time to make a cosplay if I don&#8217;t have to worry about taking pictures of the process, write a tutorial on the blog, share all the photos on social media, &#8230; Don&#8217;t get me wrong, I love sharing with you! But sometimes a pat in the back is very appreciated guys.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The fact is, if you like seeing all this (free) content, why now showing some appreciation? You don&#8217;t really need to spend any money. I am so grateful everytime I see a like, a comment or any kind of interest on what I am doing. It is very easy and it takes you no effort. Here you have some ideas.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Option A. Support your favourite cosplayer without money</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">We have all been there, and you may not have a penny to spare. You are not alone. Don&#8217;t worry so much about it, sometimes a nice comment will mean more than a thousand pounds. You are getting lots of contents and entertainment completely free. If you liked it, how about a little thank you? It costs you nothing.  You may have no money to spare but maybe someone else who saw the post thanks to you does.  Not like the money is important in this case.</p>



<h3 class="wp-block-heading">Like and follow</h3>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">I think a like shows the most basic support. Believe it or not, a like or a follow means a lot. Maybe you like a cosplayer but you didn&#8217;t realise they have several pages. If you can, give them a follow on each one. Read their content and open their links. This will give them more reach and they will be known by more people.</p>



<figure class="wp-block-image"><img fetchpriority="high" decoding="async" width="1248" height="886" src="https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/love.jpg" alt="liking on instagram" class="wp-image-7929" srcset="https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/love.jpg 1248w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/love-600x426.jpg 600w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/love-768x545.jpg 768w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/love-1140x809.jpg 1140w" sizes="(max-width: 1248px) 100vw, 1248px" /></figure>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Go ahead and click the like button. Many times I am browsing my feed and I think &#8220;oh, that cosplay is awesome&#8221; or &#8220;ah, that&#8217;s such a good tutorial&#8221;. And you know what, I click it! Otherwise how will they know you even saw it? The more likes a photo gets the more people will get to see it. The more clicks, the bigger the percentage and the bigger the audience. </p>



<h3 class="wp-block-heading">Share the love</h3>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Like what you see? Share it! Share their content, mention them in your stories or talk about them to you friends. It is the easiest way to help them reach other people that may be interested in their work. You don&#8217;t need to share every single image they post but you can share the best ones or the ones you think that can help others, for example, I write lots of tutorials because I think they may help other cosplayers.</p>



<figure class="wp-block-image"><img decoding="async" width="1639" height="809" src="https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/share.png" alt="sharing on facebook" class="wp-image-7926" srcset="https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/share.png 1639w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/share-600x296.png 600w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/share-768x379.png 768w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/share-1140x563.png 1140w" sizes="(max-width: 1639px) 100vw, 1639px" /></figure>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Furthermore, what about asking your local convention to bring them as a guest? They may consider it, you will probably get to meet them and they will be known by more people in your area. Again, more people, more reach, more people liking, you know how it goes.</p>



<h3 class="wp-block-heading">Talk with your cosplayer</h3>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">If you really want to show apreciation talk to them. It always surprises me when someone in a convention recognises me and says &#8220;Hey, I follow your page&#8221; or &#8220;I loved your tutorial&#8221; or &#8220;you look amazing on this cosplay&#8221; Really guys, you are awesome. Every time it happens I feel like I could cry. It means a lot to me!</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">This also translates to <strong>comments</strong> on their posts. Compliment their work, tell them that you used their tutorial so they feel  useful, say thanks for an interesting article. Most cosplayers will be happy to discuss any matter with you! I often get comments or messages from other cosplayers asking me how to do this or that or maybe sharing a photo of a cosplay they made using my tutorials. I just love having a chat with people that share my hobby!</p>



<figure class="wp-block-image"><img decoding="async" width="2048" height="1365" src="https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/17358675_1408030342604677_670625469288819665_o.jpg" alt="larxenne, calssara and alice in cosplayland" class="wp-image-7927" srcset="https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/17358675_1408030342604677_670625469288819665_o.jpg 2048w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/17358675_1408030342604677_670625469288819665_o-600x400.jpg 600w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/17358675_1408030342604677_670625469288819665_o-768x512.jpg 768w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/17358675_1408030342604677_670625469288819665_o-1140x760.jpg 1140w" sizes="(max-width: 2048px) 100vw, 2048px" /></figure>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Believe me, I am a shy person, talking to someone I don&#8217;t really know, even online, makes me anxious and I know for many people it is something very difficult to do. At the same time, you would be surpised! I have met some awesome people asking them how they made this or that cosplay!</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading"> Option B. Support your favourite cosplayer with money </h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">You don&#8217;t need to break your piggy bank in order to support an artist. Cosplayers spend lots of hours creating new content. They also spend a lot of money on resources and materials, some of those costs are more obvious than others. Not many cosplayers will get rich selling prints, but they may get enough to add that extra detail to a cosplay that otherwise they may not be able to afford. Consider chipping in if you can. Most of the time you will get something in exchange too!</p>



<h3 class="wp-block-heading">Use their promos and affiliate links</h3>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Many cosplayers are ambassadors of shops and brands. If you decide to use their promo codes or just click to their affiliate links you will be helping them! Maybe they get a commission or perharps a sponsorship. It won&#8217;t cost you more, on the contrary, it may cost you less, and you will be helping your favourite cosplayer by just clicking a link and getting something you want. Even if it takes you a month to make up your mind it will still help!</p>



<figure class="wp-block-image"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="486" height="391" src="https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/UNIQSO-CODE.jpg" alt="discount code" class="wp-image-7928"/></figure>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">I recently started an affiliate program with <a href="https://www.uniqso.com?rfsn=2521561.64ba35&amp;utm_source=refersion&amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;utm_campaign=2521561.64ba35">Uniqso</a>, which has been my favourite contact lenses shop since I started wearing contact lenses for cosplay over 5 years ago. If you click my links to their page or use my code ALICECOS for a 10% off  when you buy something, I make a little percentage of the sale. It is not much, but you will actually be helping me! If you are buying that wig or contacts anyway why not get them cheaper and help a fellow cosplayer while you do it?</p>



<h3 class="wp-block-heading">Buy their merchandising and products</h3>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Many cosplayers will go to conventions with <strong>prints</strong> and other thins. Buying them you will show your support and will get a lovely piece of art for your wall! Don&#8217;t get me wrong, unless you are a very famous cosplayer, most of the time the cosplayer will be out of pocket selling prints. Specially if they decide to print a batch for a convention and only sell a few. </p>



<figure class="wp-block-image"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="2048" height="1024" src="https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/IMG_20190901_162229.jpg" alt="support cosplayers" class="wp-image-7932" srcset="https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/IMG_20190901_162229.jpg 2048w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/IMG_20190901_162229-600x300.jpg 600w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/IMG_20190901_162229-768x384.jpg 768w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/IMG_20190901_162229-1080x540.jpg 1080w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/IMG_20190901_162229-1140x570.jpg 1140w" sizes="(max-width: 2048px) 100vw, 2048px" /></figure>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Also, many cosplayers usually get some income selling patterns and tutorials. Some of them make props, little cosplay items, wig styling,&#8230; Take a look at their pages and you will find out more. Maybe they will consider making a costume for you! I have lots of prints, books, patterns and tutorials from fellow cosplayers, including pdf files and guides. It takes a lot of time to create patterns, costumes and tutorials, and they can save you that time. For example, in <a href="https://www.etsy.com/uk/shop/Aliceincosplayland">my Etsy Shop</a> you can get Cosplay Planners and cosplay patterns that will help you with your cosplays.</p>



<h3 class="wp-block-heading">Crowdfunding</h3>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Yes, you can support your favourite cosplayer directly with money if you want to. For some cosplayers it is a job. They will be providing you with a service each month in the form of content, tutorials, photos and much more.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">One of the most known platforms to support cosplayers is  <a href="https://www.patreon.com/">Patreon</a> . When you become a patron, you have access to exclusive content available only to supporters. Some cosplayers will share exclusive tutorials or patterns, others will send you prints and make giveaways. You will also get lots of photos that won&#8217;t be available anywhere else. They will let you know what kind of reward to expect. The platform works as a subscription and you will be charged each month or each time they upload content depending on their settings. There is usually different tiers as well, and you can decide how much money you want to contribute with, from 1$ a month to as much as you want to spend.</p>



<figure class="wp-block-image"><a href="https://ko-fi.com/aliceincosplayland"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="1200" height="600" src="https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/ko-fi-goal.jpg" alt="ko-fi reach goal" class="wp-image-7933" srcset="https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/ko-fi-goal.jpg 1200w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/ko-fi-goal-600x300.jpg 600w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/ko-fi-goal-768x384.jpg 768w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/ko-fi-goal-1080x540.jpg 1080w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/ko-fi-goal-1140x570.jpg 1140w" sizes="(max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px" /></a></figure>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Another popular platform is <a href="https://ko-fi.com">Ko-fi</a>. The difference with Patreon is that the payments are not necessarily by subscription. You can also set goals and rewards on this platform and the supporters can contribute with a fixed amount of money, usually about $3. I recently opened <a href="https://ko-fi.com/aliceincosplayland">my Ko-fi page</a> and I am working on new rewards for those of you who would want even more cosplay! </p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">To sum up</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Always remember that cosplayers, like many other artists, spend their time trying to get you the best content they can. It can be photos of an elaborate costume, an article, a great tutorial or patterns to help you with your cosplays. It takes hours and hours! And mostly we do it all out of love. I started sharing my photos and tutorials because I found the photos and tutorials from other cosplayers very useful. I couldn&#8217;t have done it without them. That is why I wanted to give something back to the community. Remember that just a like or a thumbs up will be enough to support your favourite cosplayer and make them happy. Next time you see an artist, cosplayer or not, with some artwork you like, consider the many ways you can help him.</p>



<figure class="wp-block-image size-full"><a href="https://aliceincosplayland.etsy.com"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="1816" height="458" src="https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/Cosplay-Shop-Banner.png" alt="Cosplay Shop Banner" class="wp-image-10570" srcset="https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/Cosplay-Shop-Banner.png 1816w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/Cosplay-Shop-Banner-600x151.png 600w" sizes="(max-width: 1816px) 100vw, 1816px" /></a></figure>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">And that&#8217;s it, I hope you liked it. I guess here is where I remind you that you can <a href="http://ko-fi.com/aliceincosplayland">support me on Ko-fi</a> if you want. Also, if you are looking for <a href="https://www.etsy.com/uk/shop/Aliceincosplayland">patterns and cosplay related downloadables</a> make sure to check my collection! And don&#8217;t forget to drop those likes on my <a href="http://www.facebook.com/aliceincosplayland">Facebook</a> , <a href="http://www.twitter.com/cosplayalice">Twitter </a>and <a href="http://www.instagram.com/cosplayalice">Instagram</a>. Thank you always for your support!</p>


<p>The post <a href="https://aliceincosplayland.com/2019/09/how-to-support-your-favourite-cosplayer.html">How to support your favourite cosplayer</a> appeared first on <a href="https://aliceincosplayland.com">Alice in Cosplayland</a>.</p>
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		<title>How to deal with trolls</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Mar 2019 11:19:12 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>You have worked so hard to finish your projects. You do not deserve getting your work and self-esteem spoiled by a troll. </p>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The Internet is wide and free. Everybody has opinions and thoughts and nowadays it is just very easy to let everyone know what you are thinking. Unfortunately, not everybody out there will share nice thoughts. You may have come across this special breed that we call &#8220;trolls&#8221;. And that is why in this post I will talk about how to deal with trolls.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">A troll is a person that will start a quarrel or try to upset people on the Internet just for fun. He will try to post mean comments with the intent of provoking or start a discussion, usually just for his own amusement. They use their anonimity in order to get away with it.</p>



<figure class="wp-block-image"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="1920" height="1152" src="https://i2.wp.com/aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/anonymous-2768825_1920.jpg?fit=960%2C576&amp;ssl=1" alt="" class="wp-image-5720" srcset="https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/anonymous-2768825_1920.jpg 1920w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/anonymous-2768825_1920-300x180.jpg 300w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/anonymous-2768825_1920-768x461.jpg 768w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/anonymous-2768825_1920-1024x614.jpg 1024w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/anonymous-2768825_1920-1140x684.jpg 1140w" sizes="(max-width: 1920px) 100vw, 1920px" /></figure>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">You will find individuals that will criticize or make fun of your size, gender, ability, body shape, accuracy, colour of your eyes, shape or whatever silly reason they may find to criticize something about you or your work. One in a million users will try to give you a positive feedback, but most of the time you will get unwanted and hurtful criticism just because.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">You have worked so hard. You may not be perfect but you definetely tried your best. That is why you do not deserve getting your work and self-esteem spoiled by a troll. But unfortunately, when you are on the internet, it does happen. I don&#8217;t want you to be upset and that is why I am going to show you how to deal with trolls.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">What to do</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">As I said, the internet is free and we have freedom of thought. You can&#8217;t ban someone for thinking something about you. They may even be able to talk about you with their friends because they are bored and they have nothing better to do. But the moment they go to your profile to criticise you or you work is when you don&#8217;t need to take it anymore and you can defend yourself. Here you have some options.</p>



<figure class="wp-block-image"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="1920" height="1280" src="https://i2.wp.com/aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/deaf-3737373_1920.jpg?fit=960%2C640&amp;ssl=1" alt="" class="wp-image-5716" srcset="https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/deaf-3737373_1920.jpg 1920w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/deaf-3737373_1920-300x200.jpg 300w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/deaf-3737373_1920-768x512.jpg 768w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/deaf-3737373_1920-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/deaf-3737373_1920-1140x760.jpg 1140w" sizes="(max-width: 1920px) 100vw, 1920px" /></figure>



<h4 class="wp-block-heading">Ignore them</h4>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Don&#8217;t feed the troll. This is the easiest move, just blank them, ignore them. It is your page, your blog, or your profile. You don&#8217;t need to listen to them. You never asked for an opinion. They are being rude and they are in the wrong place. You don&#8217;t have to deal with them. They will probably get bored and won&#8217;t comment again.</p>



<h4 class="wp-block-heading">Agree with them</h4>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Maybe they are right. You may not like what they have to say or how they say it but you can use it as a critique and take it. They really won&#8217;t expect it and won&#8217;t know how to reply. Probably they won&#8217;t try again. </p>



<figure class="wp-block-image"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="1920" height="1273" src="https://i2.wp.com/aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/actress-2868705_1920.jpg?fit=960%2C637&amp;ssl=1" alt="" class="wp-image-5717" srcset="https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/actress-2868705_1920.jpg 1920w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/actress-2868705_1920-300x199.jpg 300w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/actress-2868705_1920-768x509.jpg 768w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/actress-2868705_1920-1024x679.jpg 1024w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/actress-2868705_1920-1140x756.jpg 1140w" sizes="(max-width: 1920px) 100vw, 1920px" /></figure>



<h4 class="wp-block-heading">Laugh at it</h4>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">I myself can&#8217;t help it, trolls make me laugh. Use a funny comment against them and just laugh at their stupidity. They won&#8217;t know what to answer and you and your followers will laugh so much! </p>



<h4 class="wp-block-heading">Ban them</h4>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Are they really getting on your nerves? Do they persist? They are always writing mean comments? Most social media will have a ban button, even your Facebook Page! Ban them and you won&#8217;t need to see their avatar ever again. Problem solved.</p>



<figure class="wp-block-image"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="1920" height="1357" src="https://i0.wp.com/aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/paper-109277_1920.jpg?fit=960%2C679&amp;ssl=1" alt="" class="wp-image-5718" srcset="https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/paper-109277_1920.jpg 1920w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/paper-109277_1920-300x212.jpg 300w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/paper-109277_1920-768x543.jpg 768w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/paper-109277_1920-1024x724.jpg 1024w, https://aliceincosplayland.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/paper-109277_1920-1140x806.jpg 1140w" sizes="(max-width: 1920px) 100vw, 1920px" /></figure>



<h4 class="wp-block-heading">Report them</h4>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Unfortunately, some people will go too far. If someone turns homophobic, racists or keeps insulting you don&#8217;t be afraid to report them. Those are major things. Let someone else deal with it. Do not engage with them and keep all the evidence you can. Hopefully they will be banned forever and will leave you alone. </p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">What not to do</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">I know it is difficult not to fight back, but most of the time it is not worth it. The best way to get rid of a bully is to bore them. Do not argue, insult or strike back. That is exactly what they want. Do not give it to them.</p>



<h4 class="wp-block-heading">Erase their comments</h4>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">I know you will be tempted to erase their comments, but probably they will keep trying over and over again. If you erase their comments it looks like you can&#8217;t take criticism. I sometimes find that if you handle it well they will erase or change the comments themselves!</p>



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<h4 class="wp-block-heading">Start an argument</h4>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">You may be tempted to argue back. As much as you can be right they are not going to change their mind. They will find something else against you and you will only get upset trying to convince them otherwise. The are bored and want you to engage. Don&#8217;t waste your time. It is not worth it.</p>



<h4 class="wp-block-heading">Get to the insults</h4>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Don&#8217;t play their game, do not fall as low as them. Trolls want a reaction and you are giving it to them insulting back. Be the better person and be nice. They want the insults and a reason to call you names back. I can promise you they will be more hurt if you blank them or if you are nice to them.</p>



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<h4 class="wp-block-heading">Lynch them publicly</h4>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Again, this is not the far far west. They may have done something wrong, but pointing at them with a finger and asking all your friends to insult, shame or abuse them is not the solution. As stupid as they can be, they are human and it can be too much. They did not consider your feelings but you know how much it hurts, and can be nice enough to consider theirs.</p>



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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">You should now have an idea of how to deal with trolls. It is not easy to deal with them, but you have quite a few chances to succeed in getting rid of them. Remember, take a deep breath, be calm and stay cool. How you handle it will say a lot about you and may get you a few extra admirers.</p>
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